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Wenn das Kind im Bauch stirbt: „Mutter trifft keine Schuld“

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Paare, die ihr Kind während der Schwangerschaft oder bei der Geburt verloren haben, fallen oft in ein tiefes Loch.

Paare, die ihr Kind während der Schwangerschaft oder bei der Geburt verloren haben, fallen oft in ein tiefes Loch.

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Essen.  Paare, die ihr ungeborenes Kind verloren haben, fallen oft in ein tiefes Loch. Nadine Heming erklärt, wie sie wieder nach vorne blicke können.

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