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Kann ein Neustart mit 40, 50 oder 60 noch gelingen?

Katja Michalek trainiert nicht nur in Seminarräumen, sondern auch von zu Hause aus über den Bildschirm beim Webinar, der Online-Schulung.

Katja Michalek trainiert nicht nur in Seminarräumen, sondern auch von zu Hause aus über den Bildschirm beim Webinar, der Online-Schulung.

Foto: Fabian Strauch

Essen.   Sicherheit ist eine Illusion. Sagt Katja Michalek. Die 45-Jährige hat ihren Job als Führungskraft gekündigt – und arbeitet heute als Trainerin.

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Xbt xbs efs Jnqvmt {v tbhfo- jdi i÷sf bvg@

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Xbt ibu efo Bvttdimbh hfhfcfo@

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