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Gezeugt durch Fremdsamen: Ein Spenderkind sucht seinen Vater

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Martina ist 33 Jahre alt, als sie erfährt, dass sie ein Spenderkind ist. Nun sucht sie nach ihrem genetischen Vater.

Martina ist 33 Jahre alt, als sie erfährt, dass sie ein Spenderkind ist. Nun sucht sie nach ihrem genetischen Vater.

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Essen.  Martina ist ein Spenderkind, 1985 durch Fremdsamen gezeugt. Bis vor kurzem wusste sie nichts davon. Nun sucht sie ihren genetischen Vater.

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=tuspoh?Nfis {vn Uifnb — mftfo Tjf bvdi; =0tuspoh?

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Essener Spenderkind: „Ich will wissen, wo ich herkomme“

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Suche nach dem leiblichen Vater gestaltet sich schwierig

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Betroffene berät im Verein Spenderkinder auch Wunscheltern

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