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Gemeinsam statt einsam: Single-Gottesdienst in Essen

Kontakt in der Kirchenbank: Zusammen ins Liederblatt schauen.

Kontakt in der Kirchenbank: Zusammen ins Liederblatt schauen.

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Essen.   In Essen feierten Christen erstmals Gottesdienst für Singles und andere Einzigartige. Das war gut gemeint, gefiel aber nicht jedem.

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„Immer nur Familien“

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Netz debattiert über Stigmatisierung

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„Spuren im Sand“

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>> Besondere Gottesdienste

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