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Ehe-Seminar für Verlobte: Damit das Ja glücklich macht

Marisa und Florian Blum besprachen beim Picknick im Park ganz neue Dinge. Sie haben inzwischen geheiratet.

Marisa und Florian Blum besprachen beim Picknick im Park ganz neue Dinge. Sie haben inzwischen geheiratet.

Foto: Ralf Rottmann

Essen.   „Seid ihr bereit?“ Im Ehe-Seminar nehmen sich Verlobte ein Wochenende lang Zeit, darüber nachzudenken: Was versprechen wir uns? Und warum?

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Ein Pastor ist bei den Brautpaaren

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Sie liebt auch seine Macken

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Was macht unsere Beziehung aus?

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Jede Beziehung hat ihre Rituale

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Ein Mini-Urlaub vor dem großen Tag

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Nbsjtb Cmvn tbhu ft jn Sýdlcmjdl tp; ‟Ft xbs fjo Xpdifofoef mboh Cf{jfivohtcfsbuvoh- piof cfsbufo {v xfsefo/”

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