Ehrenamt

Begräbnis-Leiterin: Gladbeckerin hat kein leichtes Ehrenamt

Mechthild Ide, Christiane Nickel und Irene Otto sind ehrenamtliche Begräbnis-Leiterinnen in der Pfarrei St. Lamberti.

Mechthild Ide, Christiane Nickel und Irene Otto sind ehrenamtliche Begräbnis-Leiterinnen in der Pfarrei St. Lamberti.

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Gladbeck.  Mechthild Ide unterstützt seit diesem Monat ein bestehendes Team in der Pfarrei St. Lamberti. Die Aufgaben haben besondere Herausforderungen.

Trauergespräche mit Hinterbliebenen führen, Andachten schreiben und Begräbnis-Wortgottesfeiern leiten – keine leichten Aufgaben. Überhaupt, sich mit den Themen Tod, Trauer und Abschied zu beschäftigen, fällt einigen Menschen schwer. Mechthild Ide aber hat sich für das Ehrenamt als Begräbnis-Leiterin entschieden. „Der Tod gehört zum Leben dazu und damit gilt es sich auseinanderzusetzen“, sagt die 65-Jährige.

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„Kinder beerdigt der Pastor“

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