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So arbeitet eine Standesbeamtin im Rathaus in Dinslaken

Lavinia Benninghoff ist neue Standesbeamtin im Dinslakener Standesamt.

Lavinia Benninghoff ist neue Standesbeamtin im Dinslakener Standesamt.

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Dinslaken.  Lavinia Benninghoff arbeitet seit März als Standesbeamtin in Dinslaken. Obwohl sie geschieden ist, glaubt sie an das Konzept der Ehe.

„Ja, ich will“ – Ausrufezeichen. Der Spruch an der Wand des Trauzimmers im Rathaus lässt vermuten: Hier kommt kein Brautpaar unverheiratet wieder raus. Es sei denn, einer der Brautleute antworte zum Spaß mit „Nein“, sagt Standesbeamtin Lavinia Benninghoff, um deren Hals eine silberne Kette mit Herzen liegt. Die 35-Jährige arbeitet seit März im Standesamt Dinslaken, ihre ersten Trauungen hat sie bereits hinter sich, ganz ohne Nein-Sager. „Ich habe davon aber schon gehört. In solch einem Fall ist in der Regel aber auch Schluss und die Brautleute müssen an einem anderen Tag wiederkommen.“

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