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Wenn Kinder den Kontakt zu den eigenen Eltern abbrechen

Erziehung: Drei Lifehacks, die alle Eltern kennen sollten

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Berlin.  Etwa 100.000 Kinder in Deutschland haben keinen Kontakt zu den Eltern. Die Funkstille führt zu Schuldgefühlen – auf beiden Seiten.

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Kontakt zu Eltern abgebrochen: Manchmal gibt es nicht „den einen“ Grund

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Auch das Leid der verlassenen Eltern ist groß

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