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Die Elternzeit in Deutschland muss noch männlicher werden

Ein Vater trägt seinen Sohn beim Spaziergang in einer Baby-Trage vor sich her. (Symbolbild)

Ein Vater trägt seinen Sohn beim Spaziergang in einer Baby-Trage vor sich her. (Symbolbild)

Foto: ABleyl@wmg.loc / iStock/AleksandarNakic

Berlin  Nur jeder dritte Mann nimmt Elternzeit – und viele nur kurz. Dieses Ungleichgewicht muss ausgeglichen werden – auf mehreren Ebenen.

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Die meisten Väter nehmen nur zwei Monate Elternzeit

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Paare leben Ungleichweit weiter – bewusst oder unbewusst

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